So You Want Happiness & Success?

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Hi,

In my previous blog where I presented the first half of the “The Kneeling” (Chapter 45), there were some really amazing verses in connection to how God’s purpose is to care for us all. The sea (verse 13) was only one example of God’s cherishing care in making all things in nature available for the use of man, through the genius and faculties which He has given to man. We (mankind), should never forget that it is all from “as from Him”, i.e. from God. For man is God’s trustee on earth and we are here to interact with all things in a manner prescribed by Him, The Master of the Universe.

This is why we have God’s Law’s: as instruments to protect all that is good and sacred, and to deter from all that is harmful and excess. To re-iterate, God’s Laws are here for the “attainment of benefit (arabic: maslaha) and prevention of harm (mafsada)”.  This means everything related to PLEASURE & HAPPINESS and what leads to them, and everything related to PAIN & SADNESS and what causes them.

We know that most of human behaviour is determined by one of these two elements: acquiring pleasure, and deflecting pain. These motivational poles are intrinsically built into the nature of man - its hard-wired in - so that sub-consciously we are all operating by, and between, these two psychological sides.

Such an inherent Reward / Punishment scheme has been given to us a part of our faculties by our Creator. This is why He, the Great and Wise, refers to those who do good as being eternally rewarded and those who sin, or commit evil, as being eternally punished. Its really feeding the same psychological centres that we operate in at the temporal realm where we want to increase GAIN and reduce LOSS.

But our real test comes from realising this Goal of the Creator and to not cave-in to our base desires and live an unruly, rebellious life as a consequence where the greater disadvantage is against our own self, person and soul. The sinners, or those wrong their own souls, think that they are gaining advantage, or pleasure and happiness, by submitting to fleeting, instant gratifications, but in reality they are only serving-up harm against themselves. The good-doers, who obey God’s commands, are living by higher standards of prayer, charity and selfless service and although they may face hardship along the way, these are minor aspects in the grand scheme of things where they will attain peace, satisfaction and immense rewards due to their purified souls. And in this life too, they will live healthily, garner prosperous relationships, have peace of mind, and a serenity in the heart accompanied with real contentment that can only come from above, despite the material comforts that may be afforded to them.

Adhering to the commandments of God (Do’s) & abstaining from His prohibition (Don’t) is the real test and this is where man’s free will, or freedom of choice, is exercised. In all things prescribed (do) and prohibited (don’t) there is CHOICE. In all other matters and things, Pre-determination reigns.

We will pick-up on the concept of God’s Commands again and reflect on why people fail to follow them, such as nations who were previously blessed by God and they actively rebelled against him, falling into vice, confusion and folly.

For Success & Contentment,

Asad Khan

Between East & West: Former President of Bosnia

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Hello,

Sometime ago, I read (parts of) the book “Islam Between East & West” by the late former Bosnian President, Alija Izetbegovic (1984, American Trust Publications, ISBN: 0-89259-057-2). I must admit it wasn’t the easiest of reads as it appears to be a real in-depth journey into his mind and the reconciliation between his identity, philosophies, nationality and faith. So, I’m glad he summarised the work in his autobiographical notes: “Inescapable Questions” (2003, The Islamic Foundation, ISBN: 0-86037-362-2) so that I may represent the summary here for your convenience (pp 26-29):

“My aim with that book was to consider the place of Islam in the present-day world of ideas and facts. It appeared to me that it lay somewhere between Eastern and Western thinking, just as the geographical position of the Muslim world occupies the space on the globe between East and West. I tried to show that some general ideas and some values are common to all humanity. To summarise briefly, these are the contents of the book: there are only three world views and more there cannot be - the religious, the materialist and the Islamic.

Everything is created in pairs (Qur’an). Man is a dual being: body and soul. The body is merely the ‘carrier’ of the soul. That carrier has evolved, which means it has a history, but the soul has not; it was inspired by the touch of God.

The first aspect of mankind is the subject of science, the second of religion, art and ethics. This is why there are two accounts and two truths about mankind.

In the Western world, they are symbolised by Darwin and Michelangelo. Darwin has nothing to about Michelangelo’s man, and vice versa. Their truths are different, but not mutually exclusive. Over time they manifest themselves as the opposition of civilisation and culture. Science and technology belong within the domain of civilisation, religion and art to culture. The first is the expression of human needs (how do I live), the second of human aspirations (why do I live). This is the contradiction between utopia and drama.

Utopia does not recognise the individual, drama, morality. Study and meditation are two different spiritual activities, with opposing foci: the first is outwardly oriented - towards nature, the second inwardly - towards the spirit and the Self.

Every scientific method leads towards a negation of God and man, whilst all art announces religion. If there is no God, there is no Mankind either. And without mankind humanism, human dignity and human rights are empty phrases.

Civilisation knows nothing of the notion of duty, and every culture is an affirmation of the victim. Civilisations aim is an ‘earthly empire’ with utopian equality, and religion’s is the ‘kingdom of heaven’. This is Campanella’s ‘Civitas Solis‘ as against the ‘Civitas Dei‘ of St. Augustine. Their is no moral order without God. Morality is merely ‘another physical condition’ of religion. While civilisation is evolution; history, religion and art have no true development.

Every religion was pure in its origins (ur-monotheism). It becomes corrupted in the course of its history, as is the case with art and morality; hence the opposition between Jesus and the Church. Every true law is dual, and medicine is never purely science.

Caveman’s drawings or the aboriginal masks from Polynesia are in essence works of art no less stirring than modern creations. The whole of life is marked by this primary dualism, and its ’signs’ may be found in every phenomenon linked with the name of man. Here too is the difference in spirit between Old and New Testament, between Moses and Jesus. One was leader of the people, the other a preacher of morality. And there, too, lie their two different justices and aims: the Promised Land and the Kingdom of Heaven.

These opposites are reconciled in mankind and in Islam. Islam is a synthesis, the ‘third way’ between these two poles that denote all that is human.

I must admit that I was afraid of experts and their reading of the book ‘line by line’. I felt confident that a reader who followed the vision outlined in rough, or even hinted at, in the book would find something more in it than the pedantic, analytical mind. I was aware that my attempt at stating my vision remained understated, merely conjectural, and in places incoherent. I gave a number of familiar concepts a metaphorical rather than conventional meaning: Judaism, Christianity, Islam and so on are metaphors, with general rather than specific meaning. For example, Islam is a major metaphor for the ‘third way’, for every form of life, with a formula that fulfils the human person. In fact, the book was no more than testimony to a vision of the world.

I enjoyed identifying new parallels, theses and antithesis, coincidence and symmetries, but this was not the subject that interested me most deeply. There was one issue that always preoccupied me more than any other: the issue of famous losers. I regarded it then, and regard it to this day, as the deepest religious problem. It can be posited in a number of different ways: whence the tragic and pathos in the Darwinian-Euclidian world? What are the great losers like, and why do we admire them so if this life is the only one we have? Were Antigone, Socrates and Jesus really losers? And if so, why are they so great in our eyes?

What is the origin of our admiration for the fallen heroes that has accompanied us ever since the pre-historical Iliad and The Epic of Gilgamesh? Do not even films such as cheap Westerns exploit our innate sympathy for the victim (that is, for losers) and resistance to the calculated, to self-interest? Sympathy for the victim is not something we can find in the intellect, but only in the soul, by which I mean, essentially, that is not ‘of this world’. And I say sympathy, not understanding, for this is not, and cannot be, understanding.

No amount of reasoning, cogitation and sagacity can explain or justify a single case of a life sacrificed for justice and truth. Something that is very close and comprehensible to every human soul eludes examination by all our science and philosophy. Between the act approved and the approbation there is no mediation of reflection, no apportionment of reasons pro et con. It may even be said that there is no time lapse. It is the instant reaction of the soul to good and justice, to something that is identical to the soul itself. In the world that atheists regard as the one and only, the tragic and tragedy are impossible. In such a world there are only incidents and misfortunes.

In this mindset, tragedy manifests itself to us as a religious parable. In tragedy, villains fall on their feet and great and sincere souls suffer. And because there is no ‘intellectual’ operation to proclaim these eternal losers as mad and demented, the entire story, and in particular its tragic end, appears to us as merely the first act of a greater drama - one that only God could think up. For suffering and death - which are the end of everything to the intellect - are here merely an interval between two acts in a continuing drama. Our admiration and sympathy for the fallen hero are completely meaningless from the intellectual point of view, but for that reason - whether we are aware of it or not - it is deeply religious. For only in such experiences do death and failure or loss have an entirely different meaning.

I dedicated many pages of Islam Between East and West to this question, seeking to resolve it in a variety of ways, but I was never wholly satisfied with the answer. It continues to preoccupy me to this day.”

What a Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong

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Hi,

I think that this is a beautiful song and is made for these kind of days…days of expectations unrealised.

Tell me, what do you see and more importantly what do you “think to yourself?”

What a wonderful world indeed! Praises to the One Who created it. Realise the greatness within and around you and then fulfill the promise you made to your Creator.

I hope you have a wonderful weekend and tell someone that you truly love them.

Asad

A Word from Asad Khan

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Hi,

I thought I’d make the audio transcript available here on the blog so that it’s more accessible to others.

Welcome to Ark2Ark! Let me begin by thanking you for taking a moment to listen to this introduction.

Ark2Ark is the place where you can feel at ease and be assured in the knowledge that you are coming into contact with valuable insights to help you move further, grow bigger, act better, get clarity and feel more centred and certain about the situations facing you and those around you.

Hi, my name is Asad Khan - and you know throughout my academic, professional, business and community life, I have dealt with a wide variety of people who talk about a range of issues that they are confronted with: be that in their organisations, their teams, their businesses, their study or work place, social circles, community and faith groups or even their families.

And I often wonder how the people seek to resolve their issues and move forward. After 12 years of being at the forefront of many diverse projects in an array of settings, my primary interests now are:

a) To understand the coping mechanisms of people who wish to excel in their field of ambition; and
b) To identify the critical features that distinguishes the ones who really make a mark for themselves - from those who just pass through time without really paying attention to their self-worth, destiny or legacy.

As you aware, we are now living in a global economy where the exchange of ideas, news, trade, people and culture are moving at rapid speeds and more than ever before, it seems clear to me that those who are keen to make significant progress in our times are the ones who get ahead of the rest by structuring key strategies into their mental, emotional, physical, social and spiritual patterns.

I think you will agree, that we are all facing challenges at multiple levels of our everyday lives – whether that be dealing with customers & clients; patients & colleagues; relatives or spouses; friends & neighbours; public authorities or others…right through to the other side, where one needs to get clear their own career aspirations & promotion; finances & health fitness; lifestyle habits; relationships & companionship; learning & contribution; and sense of purpose.

This I think is the dilemma of our times – and we are, as the Chinese saying goes, “living in interesting times”. I mean take a look around you and you’ll see we’re making great advances in areas such as science & technology, media, transport and construction, yet at the same time so many of us seem to lack the recognition of vital factors such as higher purpose, values and judgements.

This makes me want to strive to understand not only human needs and motivation, but also the prominent features that stifle progress and harmony in all areas of our lives.

The reasons for this is as you can see: that for some their material resources far outweighs their spiritual resourcefulness, so they begin to feel a sense of urgency to get clear on what their actual aims of life are, and how they can make meaningful contributions back to others; this way they aim to feel truly fulfilled.

Yet with others, their emotional wellness seems to be far greater than their material bank, but then they may find it hard to manifest their inner yearnings into the practical world.

I’d like you to understand that at any given moment in time a person is in one of two conditions: (a) fortunate; or (b) unfortunate. From my personal experiences, it isn’t always clear as to which category one may actually be in – however they may appear to be otherwise on the outside.

Take myself for example: I had everything going for me – career wise, social status, finances, professional credibility and a track record of achievement - till life dealt me another hand – and I ended-up losing a significant portion of those advantages that I took for granted.

In retrospection, life was teaching me major lessons - far greater than I had expected – and I am actually grateful for the opportunity to have been afforded the time for serious self-reflection and the space necessary to study my own value system.

This was a chance for me to really take stock of my experiences and begin to consider more carefully the full direction of my life and the features that are most important to me – such as

•    Time – Health – Family;
•    Skills Set – Goals – Abilities;
•    Opportunity to Give Back to Others;
•    Authentic Values & Overall Purpose.

What transpired as a result was Ark2Ark – and what it really is about is helping people - at every level of society - to get their personal balance right - so not only do they get on track to achieve their ambitions – but also feel complete whilst doing so.

Now I know the challenges are great - and so they require equally great solutions, and I believe this can only happen through a dialogue – an opening if you like.

We aim to help create the environment where you are given both the time and space to open-up to the challenges and face them authentically. The greater the scope of challenge around you, the deeper the moments of reflection that are required to muster-up the strategies to help solve and overcome them.

This is where you will be engaging your whole existence – physical, mental, emotional and spiritual centres to become focussed on achieving outstanding results.

That’s why we aim to help you get full alignment of your mind, body and soul so that you feel confident and comfortable with taking vital decisions that will affect any areas of concern, and also have a lasting positive impact on your future.

Remember, it was not long ago when Nelson Mandela was sitting in his prison looking out of the small cracks in the walls of his cell - having spent 26 harsh years for wanting to bring about a change in the condition of his people. But it wasn’t just the sunlight or air he was seeking through those gaps, he was envisioning his plans for materialising the dreams that he had incubated for several decades.

He is one living example of the power a person gets when living on purpose and with passion – and it is this inner world that I wish to demonstrate to you as the most potent and meaningful – because this is the place where the greatest and most profound transformation takes place first – and be sure to know that every human soul has the gift of choice in using it for their benefit.

So allow me to ask you this:– despite what you may have achieved so far; where you have been; whom you’ve interacted with; what you have done; or what you may acquired or amassed; what you may cherish, value or believe in – tell me in all truth and sincerity – is this all there is, or do you think there is more?

I, for one, would like you to think that there is more and to not have to settle with accepting anything less.

So really, my team and I help you to uncover the fundamentals of your being through asking searching questions in an attempt to help you to discern the reality around you.

And let me also add this: it doesn’t matter to me whether you are:-

•    the janitor of the building or the CEO of the blue chip company housed within it;
•    the student attending a place of learning or the specialist delivering the material;
•    the social entrepreneur wanting to make things happen or a national politician working to bring to the people what you claimed;
•    the home maker, professional, executive or anyone else –

In fact it doesn’t matter to me whether you’re tall or small; thin or large; dark or light; single or partnered; wealthy or impoverished; male or female or whatever -

For what truly matters to me is the place you are at right now – deep inside of you – and even more, the processes that you are undertaking to understand

  • Which side of the fence you wish to be & which way you wish to evaluate things?
  • What you are trying to achieve & what factors are your true callings?
  • How you wish to feel & how do you desire to be remembered?

It is this sense of meaning and interpretation of your surroundings that Ark2Ark offers individuals, teams, organisations and communities - at every level - unparalleled service and insights.

Combining time-tested skills from both eastern and western best practices, we are helping people to bridge the gap between the levels of mere sensory inputs and that of higher cognitive processing. We are here to help people come together on a shared platform of progress and harmony.

So, go ahead and get your workbook now - which details some key ideas for you to digest and raise awareness about the beauty and power of your uniqueness. Look around the site and when you are ready, join our online community where there are great conversations taking place from people around the world -  who have a chance to raise their voice and share their thoughts on 3 principal areas of:

  • Leadership and management;
  • Personal and social effectiveness; &
  • Health and Well-being

Once you have signed-up, be on the look-out for updates revealing information on forthcoming live events – as well as providing top tips aimed at bringing higher perspectives straight to you –equipping you with essential knowledge to help you advance further in the game of life with the,

Science of Success and the Art of Contentment!

Asad

People have voted for hope, freedom and true democracy

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Hi,

We all know that the Presidential election in the United States has meant so much for so many people around the world - at no other time in recent history have so many people pinned their hopes to one man and his dream of changing the tides of our times towards a safer, prosperous, stronger and united world. Far and away from cynicism and fear, the people of America have voted for a historical victory that more than anything else, represents truth and justice; freedom and democracy; hope and salvation.

Some of us can continue to be pessimistic and cynical and think what one can man do to change the course of our times? But let me ask you, if the same pessimism prevailed throughout Barack Obama’s election campaign, then would he have got this far? Would he have been voted for by white, middle-class, traditionally ‘red’ republican states (such as Ohio) to help him win last night? So its true, the electoral map of the US has been somewhat re-configured to fit in with the perception that one man and his dream can bring about the change that people are so desperately seeking. And in any case, was it not one man and his team (Bush) who was the cause of so much political, diplomatic and economical turmoil around the world over the past 8 years?

In my opinion, it was not the fight against John McCain that won the hearts and minds of people, it was Obama’s tumultuous fight against the Clintons that actually sealed his victory. This formidable team of husband and wife, former President and First Lady of the White House, who are so well connected, experienced and entrenched in the institutional mosaic of the country, posed the biggest challenge to Obama and his dream. Yet, he won through, battling from caucus to caucus, state to state, shore to shore.

At times it was neck-and-neck with primaries undecided as to who had the edge, at other times there was a clear win for either Senator’s Hillary or Obama, respectively. The fact that he overcame the odds back then to win convincingly over the formidable Clintons (and I say that deliberately because Bill was working hard alongside wife Hillary to make their return to the White House), was the defining moment that set Obama head and shoulders above any other candidate - democrat or otherwise!

So let’s bring this home. What does this mean for you as an individual whatever your predicament, context and stage in life? Is there an inner vision that is burning inside of you that you so dearly wish to achieve, or are you going to let mediocrity and ‘comfort’ be your place of existence? We can all be driven by another person, or a personality, that reflects our own desires and ambitions, but what about taking ownership for our own actions and taking the bold step forward to shape our personal destiny that really defies the odds?

If anything, the resounding message of the day is that authentic self-leadership is what’s needed - at all levels - in order to confront our personal, individual and collective future. It’s been difficult in recent times, and it will probably continue to be so, with wars and invasions, terrorism and fear-mongering, famine, climatic change, credit crunch, foreclosures and re-possessions, substance abuse, mental illness and family breakdown to mention just a few aspects, but how are you going to make a difference to your own situation?

I believe that the victory of Obama last night is symbolic in many ways - some say a wiping out of the ‘original sin’ of America (i.e. slavery), but at the same time we need to remember that much needs to be done to repair and heal the sores created by greed, vice, mis-judgment and mis-management that has caused havoc and led to a cancerous state over the years. There aren’t necessarily easy answers to the problems, but I believe they can be simplified if we are true to our heart and reason well with our mind.

Just think, tough decisions have to be made at every level of organisation and living: on a national level there are concerns over our employment, health issues, financial challenges, educational and housing needs and so on. Someone - or people - have to deal with these and take decisions that will affect the future of many lives. The same is also true of our personal lives and so we have get to grips with making tough decisions that are of longer term benefit to our singular mission and purpose. That’s where the strength of leadership resides: in remaining true, authentic and principled in times of choice such that the best decision is made in time of crisis and routine.

Do you feel that you are making and taking the best decision in your life? Do you feel stuck in a situation that is affecting your ability to live life at its peak - regardless of the external resources available? Are you seeking a new way, a new life, a fresh turn in your whole being so that you can inject the real meaning and beauty of life into your soul. Are you the type of person who has been led by other people’s notion of your identity and image; of your career and residential location; of your choice in relationships, friendship and companionship; have you been living at sub-standards and are aching to break loose from monotony?

Then begin believing in the same hope that drives the African women to travel 10 miles bear-footed on hot sand to fetch a pale of water and quench her children’s thirst. Believe in the same hope that unmoved a young white girl in face of an Israeli tank to help bring peace & justice in the Middle East till the point her life is prematurely sacrificed. Believe in the strength and conviction of one Afro-American man to defy the odds and become the 44th President of the United Sates of America, in a country that only less than 50 years ago was facing civil strife and racial hatred.

Believe in the power of change and come forward for the training and coaching services of Ark2Ark to help you on your way.

For Success and Contentment,

Asad Khan

Principal Trainer &

Executive Life Coach

A friend of mine recently commented…

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..that “Ace, Why don’t you just freely write on the blog as you are supposed to - without hesitation or design? I know you are offering professional services for ambitious people and organisations, as well as people who want to rejuvenate themselves and reach higher levels, but also remember people are seeking the personality behind the services, not just the information.”

Well, I’ve been thinking about it, and I feel he’s right. And one of the reasons that I got a blog inserted into the Ark2Ark site in the first place was to allow people to get past the shyness and formalities we tend to get hung-up on, so that we can reach a stage where we can have a more frank and open introduction and discussion.

In this age of social networking, all kinds of facilities are made available for people to see, hear, watch, read and get closer to the authentic side of each of us. So this is just one way to help us to connect to our humaneness without the pressures of business formalities and other similar restrictions.

So what do I intend to write about? Well anything that tickles my curiosity (as I hope it does yours), that which excites me, stirs me, raises awareness and also perhaps something I should rant and rave about! But all ought to, and will, incline towards Personal Development. Because for me, this is the ultimate bottom line: Constant and Continuous Improvement. There isn’t any real point to the idea of “progress” if we don’t grow internally - emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, psychologically - won’t you agree?

As human beings, we are created to acknowledge this natural curiosity and creativity that resides within such that we help each other to aim higher and achieve more, not merely for selfish reasons, but for the wider benefit of the community and for the causes greater than our individual self.

But it all begins with the individual: you, me, the person next door and so on. We are here to help each other through mutual cooperation, generate feelings of familiarity and trust, to assist in fulfilling needs and requirements, and working out higher objectives so that we put ourselves on track to contemplating aspects and fulfiling needs beyond our immediate realities.

So, you’ll see more postings here from me on a regular basis (he says!). Now there’s no excuse for either of us to not waking-up and looking forward to something that will lighten and brighten-up the day.

Best wishes,

Ace

Ark2Ark Motivatational Leadership Training & Life Coaching

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